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Let me start by saying that I don\u2019 like the title of this blog and I do not like the words \u2018fat\u2019 or \u2018lazy\u2019, through there was a strategy for the title and I\u2019ll explain this at the end. Having worked with teams and individuals around the world in recent years I\u2019ve discovered many patterns and fundamental truths that stops us all from discovering our \u2018sweet spot\u2019 or uncovering our identity and purpose.<\/p>\n

The ones that are the most successful, financially free, most fulfilled and the happiest, have gotten rid of 5 things. They no longer are dictated by these below ingredients that when mixed together ensures that you will end up fat and lazy.<\/p>\n

1. Strategically Self Sabotage<\/p>\n

\u201cI plan to fail. I don\u2019t want to disappoint myself and prove to me that I am a failure so I don\u2019t even try. Maybe because I\u2019m scared of what people think of me, or maybe it\u2019s because I have so many limiting beliefs and stories that I have told to myself for too long that maybe I believe that I am fat and ugly. And nothing in this world will change that so why should I even try. Maybe no one really does love me\u201d<\/p>\n

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2. Mastered Procrastination<\/p>\n

\u201cI know I should do it, but I think I\u2019ll do it tomorrow. There are so many things that I have to get done but no one is going to die if I don\u2019t get it done so I\u2019ll write a list and slowly get it done over the next few months\u2026. Where did I put that list? Sometimes I even procrastinate about procrastination. Maybe one day, just one day someone will walk up to my front door and hand my success to me on a platter. I\u2019ll wait for the phone to call me when I win tattslotto.\u201d<\/p>\n

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3. Always Delusional<\/p>\n

\u201cI create drama and distract myself from the actual truths of my situations. I don\u2019t really like looking in the mirror. Maybe I\u2019m just big boned. I wonder if I ate well today and went to the gym today that all my dreams will come true tomorrow? I know the answers to every problem on the planet, just ask me! Just one more TV show and then one more game and then I\u2019ll get up\u201d<\/p>\n

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4. Your Proximity Sux<\/p>\n

\u201cMy friend told me the other day that when he wins lotto we will get a gym membership and then travel the world, he told me this last night when we were stoned. Me and my mates are going to KFC for the 4thtime today, want to come? I know, lets all have a sickie tomorrow and go to the strip joint. My friends are the best, they never expect to much of me, accept me for who I am and let me borrow money any time I like.\u201d<\/p>\n

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5. Common Sense Is Not Common<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m starting my 14th\u00a0diet program this week. I think this is the one. Sooooo excited. I don\u2019t understand why my boss gave me a warning; just because it was a few days late, I still got it to him. Cannot understand why I did not get the gig, I worked half-hour on that proposal. Why can\u2019t people see it from my point of view, everyone is just so self-centered. I\u2019m having the rest of the week off because I stubbed my toe, not bleeding but I can\u2019t think with all the pain. \u201c<\/p>\n

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These reasons are very over-exaggerated but I\u2019m trying to make the point that we can create \u2018reasonable\u2019 for everything. Whether excuses or just basic complaining, what separates the high performers from the crowd is that they know that they are not fat and lazy. They have a self-belief about themselves. A confidence and competence that oozes out each day and the desire to get things done with no excuses or complaining.<\/p>\n

Being fat and lazy is a mindset, that all. It\u2019s how we view ourselves first. Why not try to look in the mirror and say:<\/p>\n

\u201c I am confident, competent and intelligent.\u00a0 I am beautiful, sexy and wonderful. LOOK OUT WORLD, HERE I COME\u201d<\/p>\n

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